Question from Mitch:

Hi Angela, I’m having some confusion on which reception venue to choose for my wedding next yr (March 2011). The top two that I have in  my list are RIO HONDO COUNTRY CLUB in Downey, CA and PACIFIC PALM RESORT in City of Industry.  I have received the quote and wedding packages from them.   RIO Hondo has cheaper catering cost for brunch – $26/head.while Pacific Palm is $40/head (adult) and $20/kids(just 15 out of 150 guests). However, Pacific palm will provide free cake, complimentary room and dance floor rental.  However, the reviews on the food for Pacific Palm is not soo good. I’m having some difficulties in choosing…hope you can help me..thank you!

ANSWER FROM WEDDING EXPERT ANGELA:

Hi Mitch.  It can be fun to choose where to have your reception if you have the right perspective.  First, find out what the cost the RIO has for the things that the PACIFIC PALM will throw in for free.  They at least you are comparing the same services.

Another thing to consider is that at a wedding it is the food and the music that guests remember the most.  I suggest that you talk to couples who have had their wedding at the PACIFIC PALM in the last month or two, and find out how they found the food quality.  Cooks change regularly, so it is best to check references from past couples.  Having a ’sample meal’ is not the same, as it is easy to cook a single meal as a sample, and a large meal is prepared differently.

Once you have done these things, the best price and food quality should become apparent.  Good luck and feel free to write again.

Angela Fiebelkorn, Ask the Wedding Expert