Will A Mermaid Style Dress Suit My Body Type? – Ask The Wedding Expert

Question from Taylor:

Hi, I was looking for some advice on a wedding dress. I was looking into more of a trumpet/mermaid type dress, since I like the shape it gives, but the only problem I have is i dont know if one of those types will compliment my body. I am 5’2 and 125 pounds. I have more of an hourglass shape but the problem is my breasts. They are very large (DD) and I was wondering If i’d be able to pull off a trumpet shape. I already know I don’t want to go strapless, but what kind of straps would work best? Thanks for your time.

Answer from Wedding Expert Angela:

Hi Taylor, and congratulations on your upcoming wedding.  It sounds like a trumpet style dress would look good on  your body type, but there is only one way to know for sure—-try it on.  Trumpet style dresses come with a variety of bodices that include a halter style, square neckline with cap sleeves, and v-neckline with halter or standard bodice.  Some have lace jackets with long sleeves which the bride will wear at the church, and then remove at the reception.

In fact, there is every kind of bodice you can think of.  For example, a strapless square bodice like the Allure Bridals 8301 actually makes a full bust look smaller because of the style of the bodice.  Good support is necessary and you could go strapless if you wanted to.  Many wedding dresses have built in support, while with other styles, good support can be supplied by appropriate undergarments.   Allure Bridals M402 wedding dress is a mermaid style with capped sleeves and a square neckline and the Alfred Angelo 2021 has a nice secure halter bodice.  You can find all these wedding dresses by following this link and clicking through any of the dresses you see.  Then, just type in the styles I’ve mentioned in the search box once you are there.

Being 5′ 2″, you want to ensure that your dress style does not make you look short and squat.  Avoid anything too heavy or busy on the bottom part of the dress.  The overall look should flow from top to bottom giving you a long silhouette.  You might consider an A-line style or Empire style with a fitted bodice with dropped waist (to the thighs).  Not a true mermaid style, but allows you to show off your shape and still get the length.  Allure Bridals 8612 or the Alfred Angelo 1145 with a basque waist gives you shape flattering contours and the length you need from A-line skirt.  Remember, not all A-line skirts are that ‘big and flowy’—you might prefer an a-line skirt with a slender silhouette.

The Alfred Angleo 1151 is a dropped waist with an A-line skirt allowing you to show off great curves, and keep the silhouette pretty simple.  I think for someone 5′ 2″ that skirt is a little too busy, and I would choose something simplier in style.  My sister-in-law is just over 5′ and wore a mermaid style dress at her wedding.  She looked stunning.  I think it will suit you, but try some on and see.  If you order on-line (less expensive than bridal salons) make sure you purchase a dress size based on your largest measurement.  Wedding dress sizing is weird (to say the least) so it is best to ignore it, and go by the measurements.  Parts can always be taken in—as long as it fits the largest part of you.

Have fun shopping, and feel free to email again!

Angela Fiebelkorn, wedding planner

What Should We Wear For A Wedding At The Town Hall? – Ask The Wedding Expert Answer

Question from Bridgette:

Due to financial circumstances my fiance and I have decided to get married this year at town hall and are getting married again in 2010. We are going all out at the 2010 wedding. My question what should my fiance and I wear at the town wedding? Thank you in advance.

Answer from Wedding Expert Angela:

Hi Bridgette.  I am assuming that although you are getting married at the town hall, you will go out for a nice dinner, and spend the night at a hotel.  So dress up, and enjoy yourselves.  It is your wedding day after all.

In 2010 when you renew your vows and have your “full wedding” that would be the time for the wedding dress and all the accessories.

Good luck, and congratulations.

Angela Fiebelkorn, The Wedding Expert

How Can I Accent An Ivory Wedding Dress? – Ask The Wedding Expert Answer

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Question from Jo:

Hello!  I have purchased an informal ivory wedding dress (which could pass as prom dress).  The dress came with a Black sash tied at the waist. Although the sash is lovely, I think black just takes the “bride” look off the dress (especially as its an informal dress).

Would a Cream Sash complement the ivory colour?  I would prefer a light traditional wedding dress colour for the dress ie- white, cream or champagne, or even a matching ivory Sash?

I would love your advice.  Thank you in advance.

Answer from Wedding Expert Angela:

Hi Jo, and congratulations on your upcoming wedding.  Ivory is a neutral colour, so any colour will go with it.  Your suggestions all sound fine.  You might also consider going with a metallic colour (silver is typical for weddings), or accenting your dress with the same colour as the bridesmaid dresses.

Any of these choices would work, but I would suggest silver.  It is traditional for weddings, and will give the dress some sparkle.  You can look for a ready-made silver sash, or visit your local fabric shop.  There are many lovely silver/metallic sequin-style materials that you can use to make a sash that suits your taste.  A lovely tiara or headpiece with silver or pearl jewellery can accent your look.

Good luck, and if you have further questions, feel free to comment below.

Angela Fiebelkorn, The Wedding Expert

What Style of Wedding Dress Should I Look For? – Ask The Expert Answer

Question from Miriam:

I’ve read the wonderful newspaper The Secret of Dressing Your Body Type and it helped me a lot.  I’ve defined my body type which is pear because my bust is small and my hips are bigger but not very much because I’m bit skinny, but compared to my weight my hips are ok because of my pear shape.  But I’m not sure about the choices of the wedding dressed that you advised for the pear shape because I’m not annoyed with my hips that I would hide them with an empire gown for example because this is the only part that has some good meat in my body.  By the way my weight is 53 and hight is 166 cm.  i’ve always liked the full skirt gowns because they look like princesses gowns, I don’t know if they will suit my body or not??
Please give me advice which would suit me and show me shorter and fatter

Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:

Hi Miriam.  Although you might be slightly  “pear shaped”, from your description you have a more balanced hour-glass shape.  The descriptions are for those with pronounced shapes.  For a moment, forget everything you read about body shapes.  As stated at the end of the document, the goal you are after is for your body to look balanced in the dress or gown you are wearing.  To know whether a dress will work with you or not can only be “analysed” so much—-you need to try on dresses.  If you have a large skirt without the height, your top half might look “lost” in the dress.  A lot depends upon the cut of the dress, so you need to try them on. 

Look for dresses that make your upper and lower torso look balanced.  When you try on the right wedding dress, you will know!

Angela Fiebelkorn, Ask The Wedding Expert

What Can I Wear Instead Of A Wedding Gown? – Ask The Wedding Expert Answer

Question from Lynne:

Hello,  I hope you can give me some ideas as I will be getting married next year to a lovely man.  This is the second time around for us both.  I’m divorced and Paul is a widow. I am a plus size in clothing ( size 28) but I’d like something special for this day. Not a gown though. Can you suggest something.

Answer from Wedding Expert Angela:

Hi Lynne, and congratulations on your upcoming wedding.  There are many beautiful dresses that you could wear instead of a wedding gown.  Take a look through the many bridesmaids dresses—they come in all shapes and sizes.  You might find the perfect dress there. 

If you didn’t want to go with a dress, you could go with an upscale pant suit.  Stores like Penningtons, Additionelle, Lane Bryant, etc. all have one or two beautiful classy outfits each season that is aimed at the bridal market.  Check them out online or in person.

Good luck, and if you have further questions, feel free to email again.

Angela Fiebelkorn, The Wedding Expert

What Wedding Gown I Right For Me? – The Wedding Expert Answer

Question from Liz:

I am 5’5″ and 110 lbs. What kind of dress is right for me? I would like something strapless. I was thinking of a princess or a ball gown type dress.

Answer from Wedding Expert Angela:

Hi Liz, and congratulations on your upcoming wedding.  It is difficult to advise you without knowing your body shape.  The key element you should be looking for when choosing your wedding dress is that you should look symetrical.  Your upper and lower torso should look balanced.  Without knowing your body shape, or seeing you, I cannot advise you further.  Use your judgement when picking your gown, and if you don’t trust yourself, ask a friend or relative whose fashion sense you admire to come along with you.

If I can answer any other questions, feel free to email again.

Angela Fiebelkorn, The Wedding Expert

Is A Mermaid Wedding Dress The Right Choice? – Ask The Wedding Expert Answer

Question from Christina:

Hi.  I am like five one and half feet tall and i wear a size 7 in jeans so I have curvy hips but everything else is pretty small I have a small bust and thin legs so I guess u can say I have kinda a pear shaped body    I tried on a mermaid halter dress.     I really liked it and so did everyone else.  Do you think that it’s a good choice?

Answer from Wedding Expert Angela:

Hi Christina, and congratulations on your upcoming wedding.  It is difficult to say without seeing you in the dress.  My question to you:  does your body look proportional?  Is your upper and lower half LOOK proportional?  If yes, you have the right dress.  If your upper and lower look unbalanced, then it’s not the best dress for you.

No every pear shape is the same.  Not every hourglass is the same.  I’m sure that your family and friends would not steer you wrong in your wedding dress choice.  Use your judgement, but the goal of looking well put together in ANY outfit, is a nice balanced upper and lower half of the body.  You can get more height with nice comfortable wedding shoes.

Good luck, and if you have any other questions, feel free to email again.

Angela Fiebelkorn, The Wedding Expert

What Colours To Choose For A Wedding? – Ask The Wedding Expert Answer

Question from Geofrey:

Please I request the wedding expert to suggest to me a colour I can use for my wedding.  We are both black in complexion.  Thank you.

Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:

Hi Geofrey, and congratulations on your upcoming wedding.  There are a lot of things to take into consideration when choosing your wedding colours.  If you are having a formal wedding, then you will have black and white.  If you are having an informal or contemporary wedding, you have a greater choice of colour. 

What colours do you like?  What colours look good on you?  Look at your reception site.  What colours are there?  What colour table linens do they have available? 

In a formal wedding, the bride and groom usually are in black and white, but the bridal party can have other colours.  If you are having a contemporary wedding, there are many beautiful wedding gowns in a large selection of colours.  The cumberbund and tie can be in a matching colour to the bride’s gown if you are choosing colours. 

I hope this gives you some ideas.  If you have more details, I could give you a more detailed answer.  Feel free to add comments below, and I will respond.

Angela Fiebelkorn, The Wedding Expert

The Secret of Dressing Your Body Type by Angela Fiebelkorn

The Secret of Dressing Your Body Type by Angela Fiebelkorn.  This nine page document explains the basic principles of using clothing style and cut to create a balanced look to your fashion style.  You will define your body shape, and learn which style suits your particular shape. 

Whether you have an hour-glass figure, a cone shape, a ruler shape, or pear shape, you will learn to look for the right style details to create the best look for you.  You will learn the typical waistlines—empire, natural, basque, or drop waist, and which one is right for you.  Is straight skirt better than an A-line skirt for you?  Or is the ball gown skirt best? 

Filled with pictures to show each style as it is presented, this handy document is a great resource to learn the basic principles of what is best for your body type.  Using these principles will give you the knowledge and confidence to make choosing your wedding dress an easy task.

Remember, we are always available on the blog to answer your personal wedding planning questions. 

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  • Wedding Colour Choices Made Easy (a .pdf document),
  • The Hidden Meaning of Wedding Flowers  (a 3 part video series) and
  • The Secret of Dressing Your Body Type (another .pdf document). 

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The Hidden Meaning of Wedding Flowers

In this video series, we explore The Hidden Meaning of Wedding Flowers.  The series has three videos that explore some of the history of why flowers got their meaning, as well as what they mean. 

The first video explores the meaning of the following flowers:

  • Amaranth
  • Red Chrysanthemum
  • Clematis
  • Coreopsis
  • Honeysuckle
  • Red Salvia
  • Pink Carnation
  • The second video explores the meaning of the following flowers:

  • Forget-me-not
  • Purple Lilac
  • White Lilac
  • Peppermint
  • Heliotrope
  • Peach Blossoms
  • Pear Blossoms
  • Saxifrage
  • Lily
  • The third video explores the meaning of the following flowers:

    • Cowslip
    • Morning Glory
    • Wisteria
    • Myrtle
    • Red Tulip
    • Yellow Tulip
    • Water Lily
    • Red Rose

     Remember, we are always available on the blog to answer your personal wedding planning questions. 

    If you would like to receive this video series, sign up for our SmartBrideTM Newsletter.  When you sign up, we give three bonus wedding planning tools which includes: 

    • Wedding Colour Choices Made Easy (a .pdf document),
    • The Hidden Meaning of Wedding Flowers  (a 3 part video series) and
    • The Secret of Dressing Your Body Type (another .pdf document). 

    Remember, the newsletter is free, and you can cancel at any time.