Question from Kat:
I have chosen the After Six bridesmaid dress 6554 for my wedding. There is concern for the small chested women in my party that it won’t look good on them because its a halter top. Is there anything that can be done to the dress so small chested women look good in in it??
Answer from Bridal Expert Angela:
Hi Kat, and congratulations on your upcoming wedding. Looking at the dress, I don’t think the halter style is the problem. What you have is a dress with an empire waist, and a square neckline. The banding above and below the bust will actually accent the bust. This can make a big busted woman appear bigger on top—big busted women shouldn’t usually wear square necklines.
Your concern was for the small busted bridesmaid. The accenting of the bust can look good on the small busted woman, but it really depends upon how small busted she is. If there is nothing to fill it in, it won’t look good. The bodice can be taken in, but it still won’t look as good as a style more suited to their body type. The only way to fill it out more is to use bust enhancing devices which you can purchase, which will fill out the dress more.
The style you have chosen is quite lovely, and unless you have a bridesmaid who is really flat chested, or overly big busted, the style should work. The best way to know for sure is to try it on.
There are other options. After Six dresses come in many styles in the same colours, and you could let each bridesmaid choose a style that suits her body type. This modern trend is very common and still gives your bridal party a cohesive look with the same colour.
Another option is to have the bridesmaids choose their own dress styles and let them choose any shade within a certain colour palette. For example, one wedding I attended had all the bridesmaids in various shades of purple dresses in a variety of styles. It looked great.
More and more brides are letting their bridesmaids choose their own dresses within certain parameters (usually colour and length). It is an option you might consider. Having a big-busted woman in a dress that doesn’t suit her just doesn’t look good. Having a small busted woman in a dress that doesn’t suit her also doesn’t look good.
I suggest you ask your bridesmaids what styles they like. Brides often choose dresses for their bridesmaids that they all hate! Find out what they suggest, and make a decision that you all can live with.
Good luck, and enjoy!
Angela Fiebelkorn, certified wedding planner






