What Are The Meaning and Symbolism of Colours? – Ask The Wedding Expert Answer

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Question from Rukky:

Hi, Please can you send me the meaning of colors on wedding cakes, because I want to bake a cake for somebody, and I will be presenting the cake and also need to know the colors meaning.

Answer from The Wedding Expert:

The meaning of specific colours depends upon your cultural background, and the country you are from.  For example, in North America and parts of Europe white is considered the colour of purity and that is why it is such a popular wedding colour.  In China, white is considered the colour of death and mourning, and that is why you see Asian brides wearing red.  When it comes to wedding cakes, there are no colours that have special meanings.

In North America, there are generally accepted colour interpretations or meanings.

White – purity, virginity, innocence, wholeness, completion, cleanliness, newness, peace, simplicity, kindness, Winter

Blue – calm, steadfast, strong, peaceful, heaven, Virgin Mary, inspiration, sincerity, spirituality, friendly, professionalism, loyalty, reliability, honor, melancholia, boredom, coldness, Winter, depth, stability, professionalism,  honor, trust, intelligence, unity, conservatism

Turquoise – calm, water, feminine, lively, sophistication

Green - life, growth, renewal, health, environment, jealousy, envy, inexperience, balance, harmony, stability, durability, reliability, luxurious, optimism, well-being, nature, calm, relaxation, Spring, safety, honesty, optimism, freshness, fertility, self-respect, well being

Yellow – creative, intellectual,  energy, wisdom, joy, happiness, clarity, awareness, attention-grabbing, comfort, liveliness, cowardliness, hunger, optimism, overwhelm, Summer, comfort, liveliness, happiness, energy, cheerfulness, hope

Orange - cheerfulness, enthusiasm, stimulation, creativity, curiosity, power, healing, hunger, vitality, endurance, thoughtfulness, sincerity, luck, transition, Fall

Red – warmth, love, anger, danger, boldness, excitement, speed, strength, determination, desire, courage, prosperity, joy, passionate love, life and vitality

Pink – romantic love, soft, sweet, feminine

Violet -feminine, refinement, grace, elegance, imagination, inspiration

Purple – power, royalty, nobility, spirituality, elegance, sophistication, artificial, luxury, mystery, royalty, elegance, magic, good judgment, peace of mind, fantasy, mystery, imagination

Brown - wholesomeness, earthiness, steadfastness, simplicity, friendliness, dependability, health

Black – self control, resilience, serious, conventional, mysterious, sexy, sophisticated, elegant, formality, power, strength, illegality, depression, morbidity, night

How Do I Choose A Wedding Theme? – Ask The Wedding Expert

Question from Jocelyn:

I am getting married in May 15 or 20 in 2010. And I like the colour of navy blue, light blue and white but I don’t know what kind of flowers to go with my wedding or what theme to go with and I don’t know if I should have it outdoor or in a church.  What should I do?

Answer from Wedding Expert Angela:

Hi Jocelyn, and congratulations on your upcoming wedding.  You colour choice sounds lovely.  As for flowers, there are many colours that go with blue.  Some of them are greens, purples, yellow, and melon.  As you can see from this photo, blue and melon go well together, and are considered complementary colours (they are opposite each other on the colour wheel).  This video I made on choosing wedding colours will give you more ideas on colour choices.

I think you are stressing yourself out over the flowers when you don’t need to.  What you really need to do is make a list of all the flowers that you need—bride’s bouquet, # of bridesmaid’s bouquets, boutonnieres, # of parent’s corsages, table centrepieces, etc.  I made a video that outlines what you need to consider when making your wedding flower list.  Once you have your list, go to your florist (with your budget clear in your mind), and ask them what they suggest.  THEY are the flower experts.  Bring a picture of the bridesmaid’s dress, or a fabric sample so they know your wedding colours.

When it comes to choosing a wedding theme, you have thousands of choices.  You can keep it simple with a colour theme (blue).  You can choose something that represents you and your fiance, like a hobby or something you both love to do.  To get some ideas, visit the popular wedding favour site—they have thousands of wedding favours to choose from.

When it comes to choosing an outdoor wedding, or a church wedding, the choice is really yours.  If you are outdoors, you will have to arrange things like chairs, sound system, at least one table, and then you will want to make it festive and decorative.  Usually that means arches, or lattice as a backdrop where the alter would be.  Those things can all be rented, or purchased, but they will need to be setup and taken down after the wedding.

If you were in a church, you could just decorate the church, have your wedding, and then arrange for someone to remove the decorations.  If it rains, the church would probably be your backup location anyway.  Those are the main things to consider.  This article on wedding ceremony sites might be helpful.

Good luck, and if you have further questions, feel free to ask.

Angela Fiebelkorn, Ask The Expert

The Secret of Dressing Your Body Type by Angela Fiebelkorn

The Secret of Dressing Your Body Type by Angela Fiebelkorn.  This nine page document explains the basic principles of using clothing style and cut to create a balanced look to your fashion style.  You will define your body shape, and learn which style suits your particular shape. 

Whether you have an hour-glass figure, a cone shape, a ruler shape, or pear shape, you will learn to look for the right style details to create the best look for you.  You will learn the typical waistlines—empire, natural, basque, or drop waist, and which one is right for you.  Is straight skirt better than an A-line skirt for you?  Or is the ball gown skirt best? 

Filled with pictures to show each style as it is presented, this handy document is a great resource to learn the basic principles of what is best for your body type.  Using these principles will give you the knowledge and confidence to make choosing your wedding dress an easy task.

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The Hidden Meaning of Wedding Flowers

In this video series, we explore The Hidden Meaning of Wedding Flowers.  The series has three videos that explore some of the history of why flowers got their meaning, as well as what they mean. 

The first video explores the meaning of the following flowers:

  • Amaranth
  • Red Chrysanthemum
  • Clematis
  • Coreopsis
  • Honeysuckle
  • Red Salvia
  • Pink Carnation
  • The second video explores the meaning of the following flowers:

  • Forget-me-not
  • Purple Lilac
  • White Lilac
  • Peppermint
  • Heliotrope
  • Peach Blossoms
  • Pear Blossoms
  • Saxifrage
  • Lily
  • The third video explores the meaning of the following flowers:

    • Cowslip
    • Morning Glory
    • Wisteria
    • Myrtle
    • Red Tulip
    • Yellow Tulip
    • Water Lily
    • Red Rose

     Remember, we are always available on the blog to answer your personal wedding planning questions. 

    If you would like to receive this video series, sign up for our SmartBrideTM Newsletter.  When you sign up, we give three bonus wedding planning tools which includes: 

    • Wedding Colour Choices Made Easy (a .pdf document),
    • The Hidden Meaning of Wedding Flowers  (a 3 part video series) and
    • The Secret of Dressing Your Body Type (another .pdf document). 

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    Wedding Colour Choices Made Easy by Angela Fiebelkorn

    Wedding Colour Choices Made Easy by Angela Fiebelkorn.  This 10 page document explains the basic principles of using a colour wheel to figure out what colours go together.

    Explore Tonal Colour Schemes, Complementary Colour Schemes, Harmonious Colour Schemes, and Triadic Colour Schemes, as well as the use of neutrals and texture in design.  Filled with pictures to explain each concept as they are presented, this handy document is a great primer to design and decor planning.  Using these principles will give you the knowledge and confidence to make choosing your wedding colours an easy task.

    Remember, we are always available on the blog to answer your personal wedding planning questions. 

    If you would like to receive this .pdf file, sign up for our SmartBrideTM Newsletter.  When you sign up, we give three bonus wedding planning tools which includes: 

    • Wedding Colour Choices Made Easy (a .pdf document),
    • The Hidden Meaning of Wedding Flowers  (a 3 part video series) and
    • The Secret of Dressing Your Body Type (another .pdf document). 

    Remember, the newsletter is free, and you can cancel at any time.

    How To Use The Colour Wheel To Choose Your Wedding Colours

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    Choosing your wedding colours can be a daunting task.  Will the bridesmaids look good in that colour?  What decorations can I find to match the colour scheme?  Will the reception site have matching napkins, table runners or table skirting?  These are all factors in deciding your wedding colours, but mostly, will it be something you will love on your wedding day?

    Using a colour wheel will help you decide what colours go together, and may give you ideas for wedding colours that you had not yet thought of.  In this colour wheel, you will see there are a variety of shades to each colour.  In truth, there can be many colour wheels—wheels with pastel colours, wheels with bright colours, wheels with muted grey undertones, the possibilities are endless.  In addition to the colour wheel, there are also the neutral colours of white, black and brown.  Neutral colours go with any other colour choice, and give the eye a rest from constant colour.  The more neutral colours, the more soothing a colour scheme.

    Tonal colours, sometimes called monochromatic colours, are various shades of one particular colour.  This is a beautiful colour scheme, and easy to incorporate into a wedding.  Bridesmaids can have various shades of colour for their dresses, for example.  If you are using a tonal colour scheme, if the reception room does not have a perfect match to your wedding colour, as long as it is in the same colour family, it will work.

    Harmonious colours are those colours that are next to each other on the colour wheel.  Usually two or three colours are chosen that are next to each other on the wheel, and this creates a harmonious look to your wedding decor.  Blues and purples, or yellow-orange-reds are two examples.  A harmonious colour scheme will work with any neutral, and also work if you had some tonal shades included.  The possibilities are quite endless, and really depends upon your personal sense of style.

    A complementary colour scheme is two colours that are opposite each other on the colour wheel.  Purple-yellow, red-green, or blue-orange are some examples.  If you wanted more than two colours, you could add small accents of harmonious or tonal colours to the complementary colour scheme, but it is important to let the two colours hold centre stage in your decorating scheme.  An alternative to adding harmonious or tonal colours would be using a neutral colour like white, black or brown.

    A triadic colour scheme is using three colours that are the same distance apart on the colour wheel.  For example, two colours over from purple on one side is blue, and two colours on the other side of purple is red.  Or you can go three or even 4 colours on each side of your starting colour.  The triadic colour scheme is quite bold, and usually for a wedding is used in conjunction with a strong neutral colour like white.  An example would be a decor with various shades of white (tonal) with splashes of your triadic colours.  If you wanted a bolder statement, you would just add more splashes of colour in your decor.

    Wedding Colours – How To Put A Complementary Colour Scheme Together

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    One of the first things a bride does when she starts planning her wedding is to choose her wedding colours.  This sets the tone for the entire wedding and will dictate what colours the bridesmaid dresses are, what the flowers choices are, the decorations, the wedding favours, and more.  The wedding colour choices are endless, but fall into these basic categories:  tonal, harmonious, complementary, triadic, and neutral.  If you have trouble visualizing how colours go together, using a colour wheel will help you visually see how the colours work together.

    A tonal colour scheme is various tones or shades of a single colour.  A harmonious colour scheme is one in which the colours sit next to each other on the colour wheel.  Triadic colours are equal distances apart on the colour wheel, and a neutral wedding colour scheme has various shades of white, black and/or brown.  The complementary colour scheme is found by choosing two colours that are across from each other on the colour wheel. 

    Some examples of a complementary colour scheme are:  red and green, blue and orange, and purple and yellow to name the basic colour combinations.  Of course, there are thousands of shades and tones of colour in each category, and it is important to keep the colour tones the same.  For example, if you are using blue and orange, either use a soft blue and a soft orange colour, or a combination of bold blues and oranges.  Mixed in with any colour scheme can be your neutral colours of black, white and brown.  These neutrals can be of a different tonal quality that your complementary colours, and depending upon the tone of your neutrals, it will make a different type of decor statement. 

    Choosing complementary colours is a great way to add a splash of colour to your wedding theme, and a great way to express your personality and personal style.